We are a professional couple, both very qualified and experienced in therapy, coaching, mentoring and training - our niche being that we are in the lifestyle and are uniquely placed to offer a setting that is utterly safe, confidential, understanding and where nothing is taboo.

We understand the tension between the real and the vanilla, and how so much of who you are is kept in the shadows unprocessed, leaving you feeling split and unable to process and fully explore the real you. We work to educate and narrow the Pleasure/Orgasm Gap (Orgasm gap) which is the gap in knowledge, experience and expectation that exists between the male and female experience of sex and sexual satisfaction. In our experience the Vanilla world places the cock in front and centre of the only viable source of sexual satisfaction - which imposes undue pressure on one male to satisfy a partner.

Equally, very little is generally understood about the clitoris and other areas of the female anatomy that are a source of pleasure and orgasm. Indeed, whereas it is almost impossible to find a male who has never orgasmed in their life, the statistics are concerning as to the number of women that have never orgasmed.

We promote and celebrate a lifestyle that creates the conditions whereby a woman and her multiple erogenous zones become the focus, and she is empowered to drive their own satisfaction. And where her partner feels equally validated in their role of facilitator and celebrator (and celebrated).

Our work is to bring the two worlds together to enhance an awareness of self and partnership in the gratification process that achieves levels of gratification before unimagined.